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Male Massage

It is very common for men to get an erection during a non-sexual, therapeutic, full body massage. While an erection can be indicative of being physiologically aroused, it does not necessarily indicate the presence of emotional or sexual desire. Touch administered to any part of the body can activate the parasympathetic nervous system (action summarized as “feed“ or “breed”), which can result in a partial or complete erection.

While physical arousal can occur with both male and female clients, a woman’s arousal is typically less visible. Fear of an erection, or a massage practitioner’s response to it, prohibits some men from seeking a much needed therapeutic massage.  Education about normal body function can ease this fear and invite a new level of comfort with massage therapies.

If a man shows no signs of embarrassment or discomfort due to his erection, and the therapist is comfortable, then addressing it is generally not necessary.  If the therapist notices any client discomfort, such as body tension or facial flushing, then it would best serve the client to talk about it because this reaction will divert the focus of the therapy, resulting in decreased effectiveness.

It is never the therapists intent to create sexual arousal during a session. If it happens and the client’s intent isn’t sexually inappropriate, then the session will continue.   A client with sexual intent or displaying inappropriate behavior necessitates immediate termination of a session.

Because the antidote to a parasympathetic response is activation of the sympathetic nervous system (actions summarized as “fight or “flight”), changing the technique being used may quell a spontaneous erection.  The sympathetic nervous system can be activated by increasing massage pace and pressure.

Encountering the male physiological response to parasympathetic arousal is a frequent occurrence in the massage profession.  Professionally managing human interaction surrounding this type of arousal requires preparedness, maturity and education.

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The information contained herein is for educational purposes only and is not meant for diagnosis or treatment. Any information found herein should be discussed with a health care professional. Use of this information should be done in accordance with the health care plan outlined by your health care professional. For specific medical advice, diagnosis, and treatment, consult your doctor.